I’ve been missing my mama like crazy lately.
I think it’s the impending holidays.
Actually, I know it’s the impending holidays. The thought of facing them without her is very close to unbearable.
So instead of making plans for Thanksgiving and Christmas (I seriously have no idea what we’re doing or who we are spending the holidays with), I’m packing all my moments full of things that make me smile.
We go to the park daily, even if it’s freezing. We play with friends. We go to the library. Meeker and I learn how to speak French every night after Adrienne goes to bed. We paint. We hike. I take a lot of pictures. I ignore that pile of laundry for another day. We crunch the leaves. We read a gazillion books.
And we bake cookies.
Lots of cookies.
I have so many (so many!) things to be supremely grateful for…I’m just going to cling on for dear life to those blessings, and let everything else work itself out.
That’s a plan I can handle.
Frosted Chocolate Almond Cookies
PRINT Recipe
{adapted from a recipe out of my very first cookbook}
- 1 C sugar
- 1/4 C butter, softened
- 1 egg
- pinch of salt
- 1/2 C milk
- 1 1/2 C flour
- 2 t baking powder
- 1/2 C cocoa
- 1 C sliced almonds
Frosting
- 1 1/2 C powdered sugar
- 1/4 t vanilla OR peppermint extract
- 2 T milk
Preheat oven to 375 degrees.
Cream the sugar and butter in a bowl. Add the salt, egg and the milk and stir.
Add the flour, baking powder, cocoa, and almonds and mix until just combined.
Drop by spoonful on a parchment lined baking sheet and bake for 15 minutes.
For the frosting, combine all ingredients until smooth, then drizzle over or dip the cookies in it.



Yum, these sound awesome, esp with the pep extract.
I’m so sorry you’re going through a rough time right now. I admire and respect your ability to really grab hold of all of those fun, busy moments! Keeping you in my thoughts this season.
This post was just beautiful in it’s simplicity.
I can’t even imagine how hard this season is for you right now! Keeping you in my prayers lady!
Thank ya, Chelsey lady.
You are an amazingly strong woman… I’ve been wanting to tell you that for awhile now. I will be thinking of you and your family during the holidays. (Adrienne’s staticky hair melts my heart – love it!).
Thank you for your kind words! (and that hair WILL NOT STAY DOWN…she’s a cockatoo)
Filling every moment with things that make you smile sounds like the perfect way to spend your time. The laundry can always be pushed back for another day (as long as you have clean underwear).
I cant even imagine how hard it must be, but I am confident you are keeping her spirit alive all year round! And baking usually helps make life better
I can tell you from experience that the first year is definitely the hardest. You’re doing the right thing. My first year, I disregarded what anyone else wanted me to do and only did what made me happy (which included lots of Bailey’s and lots of cookies). Each year gets a little easier, so just keep doing what you’re doing. XOXO
I’m praying for you sweetie, but I’m so thankful to know that you’re filling your days with things that make you happy!
Question for you: how do you like Rosetta stone? Is it super time-intensive? Worth the money?
I ALWAYS have to have a plan too, and I think I just added these puppies to it.
Such a beautiful post. We need to get together, my dear. I like playing at the park and messy art projects and cookies. Hang in there, lovely!
I wish I could just give you a big hug. Hang in there. Thank goodness for adorable daughters and baking, right?
You live life like no one I know. I truly admire you and Meeker. You’re both such a breath of fresh air and it’s so nice to come to your blog and read about the lives of such good, inspiring, and real people. Rock on, sister. Hugs to you during the holidays — I know it can be a hard time without your family. xo
I can’t imagine what it would be like and I don’t want to. All I can do is tell you that you are in my prayers. Some situations in life just really aren’t fair. I hope spending time doing all the things you love with that little sweetheart of yours and your hubby will make it bearable for you.
PS…you are so creative with your parenting and I can’t wait until my little bug gets old enough for baby led weaning, flour and grain bowls on the front porch, blanket forts, paint boxes, walking barefoot and baking! You are an inspiration!
I am so sorry, again, for your loss… I am sending lots of prayers your way to help you through. I lost my dad many years ago, and prayers, family, friends, and all of the amazing memories you have of your mama will carry you through even the hardest times.
I will definitely be thinking of you guys through this tough first holiday without your mom. Sending prayers and comfort as always.
Oh my goodness I love your foodie baby. That picture kills me!
I’m right there with you…my grandpa recently passed away and I’m dreading the holidays. Hang in there and hold on to all of the wonderful holiday memories you have with your mom!
I would absolutely demolish these with a pepperminty frosting. Sounds so good!
Love you friend. Hang in there and know that I’m always around if you want to talk!!
sounds like a good plan.
i had a breakdown today and then felt supremely guilty for it because i am truly so so blessed and have no reason to be annoyed. oh perspective…
i am going to read and play today too. and worry about the unfinished to-do list that i have to tackle before work tomorrow later.
Hi Katie—Have been wanting to comment for awhile. Today’s post brought tears to my eyes again, as did the absolutely beautiful posts you wrote around your mom’s death. You have an amazing writing style. Very powerful in is simplicity and honesty. I save the recipes in hopes I’ll make eveything some day. You are a wonderful photographer and Adrienne is beautiful and a lucky child. I admire you so much for your dedication as a mom and working as you do from the home. . . .this coming from a workaholic mom, who has worked outside of the home for 38 years now. Have always had some flexibility to work from home which was terrific. . . but it was never enough. The best to you always and here is a big hug from this mom.
I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. I’m always here for you friend. Be on the lookout… you have mail coming your way!
PS… I’m LOVING my cd. Thank you 1 million times!
I am aching for you so much right now. Ugly cry on my couch right now while Lulu is watching Max and Ruby in a purple tutu and eating a Tootsie Pop. I’m miffed that I can’t hug you. But grateful that I have your email address. Ridiculous photo taking must commence.
Katie, I love the bowl in that second shot! And these cookies too of course! We still don’t know which house we’re going to for the holidays either! ahhh well. at least we have cookies for now while we figure it out. love the drippy frosting
Thank you, I painted it!
Love. You. Katie. We will be in the Springs for thanksgiving, and if you are ANY where close by (Denver) where ever…I’d love to give you a giant hug! …and eat some cookies
many hugs and prayers your way!
Holidays without moms are hard! Great big hugs
SO sorry to hear that you’re going through a rough time. I can completely understand how the holidays bring up all sorts of memories. GOOD ones, yes, but hard ones, all at the same time.
Praying that you find comfort and peace throughout this holiday season!
Love your outlook, my dear! Something I have to be mindful of as well.:)
Ps. I want I e of these cookies for breakfast.
* oops- meant one of these cookies!
You continue to be in my prayers, as I know the impending holidays will not be easy. I truly admire how you find such pleasure in the small things. I am striving to do the same. Hugs.
*Thinking of you* You so have it right–fill up each moment with things that make you smile
xo
Thinking of you Katie! Cookies look uh-mazing:)
Big hugs to you, love. I know it may not make it any easier, but just always remember that she’s with you all the time. And you and Adrienne are a part of her, and that’s something that you can see and cherish every day.
And I love that you two are learning to speak French. That’s just so darn cool.
I’m gonna give you a REAL hug very soon!
Hiya sweet girl! I love that you and Meeker are learning French : ) Can’t wait to see you soon.
PS – I miss your mama too.
Love,
Dawn
Sweet Katie you know I am always praying for you. I know my first holiday was so hard and I did not even do Thanksgiving and Christmas as I normally would. I ended up going to some dear friends house for dinner and didn’t really plan it. It did end up being just what I needed to not have the memories crashing down. I did break down many times and am so glad he lifts us up when we press into him. He is near the brokenhearted, He is near you.
Love,
Lori
your momma is with you every day, now and always. she lives in♥here. God blessya deary, keep on smiling (:
Want to say something helpful and encouraging, but mostly just want to send my love. Some days are better than others. Remember to savour them when you can and get through them when you can’t. Your mom’s love will never leave you. It’s a warm hug deep inside that you’ll never lose <3
always praying. always wishing i was closer. always wanting to hug you from so far away.
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